A battle-tested Navy electrician’s mate walked into the gas rationing office at the Norfolk Navy Yard in Virginia in March 1944 to seek extra coupons to ride his Harley-Davidson to Tampa, Florida, to visit his parents.

William D. (Tommy) Thompson had a short break while awaiting reassignment to a new ship after the won he was on was at the Yard for repair and met with the woman — Ethel McPeak from Meadows of Dan, Virginia — who ran the office and discovered she also rode a Harley. After swapping motorcycle stories with him, she granted the extra coupons.

When he returned to Norfolk, he ran into the motorcycling woman and her boyfriend — motorcycle racer Joe Weatherly — at a hangout for riders in Norfolk and asked her out. She jokingly said he had to prove himself worthy, so he challenged Weatherly, a two-time national motorcycle racing champion, to race through the streets of downtown Norfolk for the right to date her.

Tommy Thompson won that race and began dating Ethel McPeak. She never dated Weatherly again, although they remained friends. He was also a friend of NASCAR legend Curtis Turner, who she knew during her time as a student at Willis High School. Weatherly later became a star in NASCAR but died in a crash at Riverside Raceway in California on Jan. 19, 1964. I remember her crying when the news came of his death.

Her dates with Thompson blossomed into love, but he had to leave when the Navy assigned him to the USS Missouri as senior electrician’s mate.

The battle-hardened battleship had shelled the Japanese islands and was on its way to attack Tokyo when the word came that Japan would surrender after the second atomic bomb destroyed another city in that nation, so Missouri served as the location for the official surrender in Tokyo Bay. A few days later he stood in dress whites on the deck of the battleship when World War II officially ended.

The dashing young sailor returned to Norfolk after the war and asked Ethel McPeak to marry him  She said yes, and they rode their Harleys to Meadows of Dan to meet her parents, Walter and Zella McPeak, who were not all that happy to learn their only child was riding “one of them gol-derned motorcycles” and — even worse — planning to marry a man who also rode one. He rode on to Florida while she stayed behind to calm her parents down and get their blessing to marry.

A few days later, she rode her bike to Tampa by herself, they married and settled in his hometown of Gibsonton, a small town just south of Tampa. I came along a little over a year later.

Dad worked for U.S. Phosphorous, a Gibsonton plant right on Tampa Bay.  He put his electrician’s mate skills learned in the Navy to good use and worked on the plant’s electrical motors.

The young couple loved each other and also loved riding Harley-Davidsons. Tommy and Ethel Thompson rode in motorcycle thrill shows and made friends with a lot of carnies who wintered in the small Florida town.

One day, he was working on an electric motor at the plant when another worker — his best friend — inadvertently turned the power back on, electrocuting my dad.

I was nine months old.  I never got to know him and have little memory of the grief and loss my mom suffered when he died.

We stayed in Gibsonton until I was five before moving to Floyd.  My mother wanted to be close to her parents.  For the first eight years of my life, my mother told me my dad could never be replaced.

But, when I was eight, she remarried and replaced the dad I only knew through her stories.  Unfortunately, my mind was set by that time and I never really gave my stepfather a chance to be a dad to me.  That was my fault, not his.

At 18, while working for The Roanoke Times, I had some comp time coming, so I packed my Mustang, left the office at 11 p.m. and drove straight through to Florida to visit my grandparents and spent time learning more about my dad.  I discovered he was an active roller skater and performed in shows.  He and my late aunt also were ballroom dance performers and appeared at events.  He was a daredevil who rode in motorcycle stunt shows with my mother. They loved to take chances.

He was a man I wished I had known.  I inherited my love of motorcycles from him. I was told my tendency to be an adrenaline junkie came from him.  My mother said I was like him in more ways than I would ever know.

“You are more than your father’s son,” she often said.  “You are him.  Cherish that.”

I do.  Happy Father’s Day (one week early), dad. You are someone I miss every day of the year.